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style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3000\u3000\u5f9e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u53e6\u4e00\u500b\u65b9\u9762\u4f86<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u8b1b\uff0c\u5931\u63a7\u7684\u865b\u507d\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u4f7f\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u5931\u53bb\u4eba\u985e\u6839\u672c\u6027\u7684\u771f\u8aa0\u54c1\u8cea\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u89f8\u767c\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u4f60\u6703\u8a8d\u70ba\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u4e5f\u540c\u6a23\u5730\u4e0d\u771f\u8aa0\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u865b\u507d\uff0c\u4f60\u6703\u8a8d\u70ba\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u53ef\u80fd\u4e5f\u662f\u865b\u507d\u7684\u3002\u4f60\u8b8a\u5f97\u9a55\u50b2\u800c\u505a\u4f5c\uff0c\u6bcf\u4ef6\u4e8b\u90fd<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u662f\u4e00<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u5834\u8868\u6f14\uff0c\u5373\u4fbf\u662f\u5c0d\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u800c\u8a00\u3002\u6211\u8a8d\u70ba\u90a3\u4e9b\u7f3a\u4e4f\u5584\u5de7\u5728\u9053\u5fb7\u502b\u7406\u65b9\u9762\u5f15\u5c0e\u5b78\u751f\u3001\u4e00\u518d\u5805\u6301\u7d14\u6de8\u884c\u70ba\u7684\u8001\u5e2b\u5011\u6700\u7d42\u57f9\u990a\u51fa\u4f86\u7684\u90fd\u662f\u507d\u5584\u7684\u9b54\u9b3c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_173\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-173\" class=\"wp-image-173 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/mugwortborn.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Dilgo-Khyenste-Rinpoche-and-Lama-Ugyen-Shenpen-300x194.jpg\" alt=\"Kyabje Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche with Ugyen Shenpen\" width=\"300\" height=\"194\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mugwortborn.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Dilgo-Khyenste-Rinpoche-and-Lama-Ugyen-Shenpen-300x194.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mugwortborn.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Dilgo-Khyenste-Rinpoche-and-Lama-Ugyen-Shenpen-768x498.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mugwortborn.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Dilgo-Khyenste-Rinpoche-and-Lama-Ugyen-Shenpen.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-173\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u9802\u679c\u6b3d\u54f2\u4ec1\u6ce2\u5207\u8207\u70cf\u91d1\u8ce2\u904d<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3000\u3000\u5728\u6211\u5dee\u4e0d\u591a\u4e03<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u6b72\u6642\uff0c\u5230\u4f4d\u65bc\u932b\u91d1\u7684\u5b8f\u5049\u7684\u9686\u5fb7\u5bfa\uff08<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rumtek Monastery<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uff09\u53bb\u63a5\u53d7<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u5361<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u76e7\u4ec1\u6ce2\u5207\uff08<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kalu Rinpoche<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uff09<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u7d66\u4e88\u7684\u9999\u5df4\u5676\u8209\u6d3e\u7684\u5b8c\u6574\u6559\u6cd5\u548c\u704c\u9802\uff0c\u90a3\u88e1\u662f\u5341\u516d\u4e16\u5676\u746a\u5df4\u7684\u4f4f\u932b\u5730\u3002<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u70cf\u91d1\u8ce2\u904d\uff08<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ugyen Shenpen<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uff09<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u548c\u7d22\u5357\u672d\u897f\uff08<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sonam Tashi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uff09\u966a\u540c\u6211\u524d\u5f80\u3002\u5e7e\u4e4e\u6240\u6709<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u5676<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u746a\u5676\u8209\u7684\u7956\u53e4\u90fd\u5728\u90a3\u88e1\uff0c\u5305\u62ec\u590f\u746a\u4ec1\u6ce2\u5207\uff08<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shamar Rinpoche,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uff09\u5927\u53f8\u5f92\u4ec1\u6ce2\u5207\uff08<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Situ Rinpoche<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uff09<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u53ca\u8523<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u8ca2\u5eb7\u695a\u4ec1\u6ce2\u5207\uff08<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jamgon Kongtrul Rinpoche<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uff09\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3000\u3000\u5728<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u5361<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u76e7\u4ec1\u6ce2\u5207\u7d66\u4e88\u90a3\u500b\u6559\u6cd5\u548c\u704c\u9802\u671f\u9593\uff0c\u6709\u5169\u4ef6\u4e8b\u7d66\u6211\u7559\u4e0b\u4e86\u6df1\u523b\u7684\u5370\u8c61\u3002\u5676\u746a\u5df4\u5076\u723e\u6703\u8d70\u5230\u967d\u81fa\u4e0a\uff0c\u900f\u904e\u73bb\u7483\u4fef\u8996\u6211\u5011\u3002\u4ed6\u7e3d\u662f\u90a3\u9ebc\u838a\u56b4\uff0c\u4f46\u540c\u6642\u53c8\u975e\u5e38\u4ee4\u4eba\u751f\u754f\u3002\u898b\u5230\u4ed6\u8b93\u6211\u5982\u6b64\u559c\u6085\u4f46\u4e5f\u975e\u5e38\u5bb3\u6015\u3002\u4e00\u65e6\u7559\u610f\u5230\u54ea\u6015\u662f\u975e\u5e38\u5c0f\u7684\u52d5\u975c\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u6703\u671b\u5411\u90a3\u500b\u65b9\u5411\uff0c\u5e0c\u671b\u4ed6\u6703\u51fa\u73fe<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3000<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3000<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 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Even in our home, you'd find phalluses carved into doorknobs, adorning soup ladles, and on banisters. They were painted on the walls, inside and outside, in different sizes and shapes. There were so many that no one even took notice. Boys and girls, brothers and sisters, monks and nuns, would have casual conversations right in front of these phallic symbols and paintings.<br \/> Bhutanese also liked to make phalluses and vaginas out of dough; this may be the one art that I have mastered. I admit I have made countless sex organs out of chewing gum and pasted them under the tables of countless restaurants around the world. It wasn't just symbols and carvings and paintings. The whole attitude around sex was much more open in this place where I grew up. Outrageous flirting was not considered unwholesome like in other societies. A woman inviting a man to spend time in bed together was as ordinary as inviting for tea. Only later did I realize that \"civilized\" society might find this behaviour barbaric, primitive, and backwards.<br \/> Eventually I myself started to think in this limited this way. After I was labeled as a tulku, it was common for ladies to come to me and open their shirts to expose their bare chests so I could blow on them, because they believe it would ease their pain. Years later, when I returned to East Bhutan and these ladies came with their open shirts, I found myself not being able to look at them. But after a few days, my old childhood chemistry set in and I once again was at ease, the judgmental mind that considered these actions primitive was quieted.<br \/> For better or worse, loss of innocence, if there is such a thing, is inevitable. Innocence loses its purity amidst the murkiness of education and grooming, which leads to hypocrisy. That has been my experience in my personal life.<br \/> Things changed for me 180 degrees when I entered the \"more sophisticated,\" \"decent,\" \"cultured\" realm of the Tibetans, living in labrangs surrounded by monks, rinpoches, khenpos, tulkus, and so on. Like many young Rinpoches, I was raised in the company of mostly celibates. Hardly a day went by without my tutors, who were mostly ordained monks, depicting women as temptresses, obstacles on the path. They would say: If you think girls are appealing and beautiful, it's just because they've washed and groomed themselves. If they stop clipping their nails for a week, they will all look like witches. If they don't brushed their teeth, their mouths will smell like other orifices, if they don't wash their hair, they will grow dreadlocks. Years later, I learned that this male chauvinistic attitude is not rooted in the Dharma, it is a worldly, cultural phenomenon, especially Asian culture, that has been lacquered with the teachings on the Vinaya.<br \/> In public, my tutors were like jealous wives, always checking the direction of my gaze. They would never dream of leaving me alone with a girl, especially if she was from Bhutan or the west, because, in the Tibetans' opinion, girls from Bhutan or the west were promiscuous and dangerous. There were so many hippies in Nepal at that time and \"westerner\" began to mean \"hippie\" which began to mean \"drug taker\" and possibly also mentally unstable. Western girls didn't hunch over, hiding their breasts and covering their behinds like the Tibetans who hid everything. My tutors didn't know what to do with this display. If they saw a western woman wearing jeans that weren't even that tight, they would make disapproving tsk tsk sounds and watch me with extra vigilance.<br \/> They didn't seem to have a clue that their 24-hour surveillance wasn't stopping my curiosity, in fact, it had the opposite effect. But I was such a good pretender, leading them to think I was uninterested, just like when I pretended I didn't like movies.<br \/> Fortunately, my tutors trusted Kyabje Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche. The moment I was in his care, they would stop guarding me, resting assured I was in good hands. Little did they know, as soon as they left, Rinpoche would start asking me if any beautiful girls had caught my eye. Only recently did I realize Kyabje Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche's openness and trust was one of the greatest skillful means to train wild beings like me. Otherwise I might have mastered the art of pretense. Pretending to be serene, pure, virginal, innocent, chaste, while inside burning with desire, going crazy alternating between the act of purity and the inner battle to suppress my hormonal eruptions.<br \/> I should say fake discipline has some value. After a while, if you are good at pretending to be pure, you become more mature and an indifferent attitude sets in, which is good; sexual objects become part of the natural environment. I personally know a few rinpoches who were under a lot of scrutiny when we were growing up together, always under the ever watchful eye of their tutors. These tulkus, just like myself, learned to act pure even though they sometimes confided to me about their fantasies and desires. Years have passed and now they have become disciplined practitioners, so they no longer need to pretend. So you can't just write off the whole process of surveillance and fakery.<br \/> Meanwhile, not pretending\u2014just being direct and open about your preferences and desires all the time\u2014can spoil a person. There is a lack of responsibility and this kind of behavior can cause others to lose inspiration.<br \/> On the other hand, out of control faking can lead one to lose touch with the fundamental genuine quality of being human. It can create insecurity, and you end up thinking others are also not genuine. If you are faking, you think others are probably faking. You become proud and pretentious, everything is a show, even to yourself. I think teachers who are not skillful in guiding a student morally and ethically, who insist on purity, end up creating demons of hypocrisy.<br \/> When I was about seven, I went to the grand Rumtek Monastery in Sikkim, the seat of the 16th Karmapa, to receive the complete Shangpa Kagyu teachings and initiations from Kalu Rinpoche. I was accompanied by my tutor Ugyen Shenpen (PHOTO WITH WIFE) and Sonam Tashi. Almost all the known Karma Kagyu tulkus were there, including Shamar Rinpoche, Situ Rinpoche, and Jamgon Kongtrul Rinpoche.<br \/> During that particular teaching and initiation from Kalu Rinpoche, two things left a big impression on me. On rare occasions, the Karmapa would come to the balcony and look down at us through the glass. He was always so magnificent and majestic and at the same time very intimidating. It was such a joy to see him but also so scary. If I detected even the smallest movement I would watch that spot with the hope that it would be him.<br \/> The other big impression was from a woman who was probably older than my mother. She was my first crush. Being a human who was under the control of countless lifetimes of habit, stuck with eighteen dhatus and twelve ayutanas, my infatuation was insurmountable. The object of my crush happened to be the mother of one of the kindest young Rinpoches, so it was a delicate situation.<br \/> She was attending the teachings with her husband. If I have to rank the emotions\u2014ignorance, desire, anger, pride\u2014I would rank jealousy and pride as the lowest. To say that jealousy has no point, is putting it mildly. But imagine, a boy of seven, jealous of a husband of a woman who is older than his mother. I had never even spoken to her. I am sure I must have looked at her with unveiled emotion, but because I was such a young boy, in her mind I was just a kid with big eyes. I was so infatuated with her that at night I couldn't sleep. For hours, while everyone slept, I laid there imagining all the things that I could do with her\u2014nothing sexual\u2014but marriage, walking in the snow mountains, riding double-decker buses and putting a rosebud in her ear, all these scenes I'd referenced from still photos of Bollywood films. If I heard a Bollywood song, I would imagine we were the ones singing. Years later when I went to London, Nedup Dorjee took me on a double-decker tour of London and thinking back on those Rumtek days made me so embarrassed.<br \/> But when I was 16 years old, it was a different story. Yet again my encounter with a lady wasn't in a high school cafeteria or a sleazy bar, but in a Dharma gathering. This time the focus of my attention was a red-headed French woman in her forties. She had come from Paris to receive teachings from Kyabje Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche in Nepal, and every day she would wear something different. Sometimes she would wear knee length skirts. She wasn't used to sitting cross legged so she was always crossing and uncrossing her legs and if I glanced at the right moment I could see her legs and stockings. She had so many different kinds, fishnets and silky hose. My infatuation with her was mostly about her style. You could say it was my introduction to French fashion. I didn't realize it was a French thing\u2014the lipstick and eye shadow and scarves. Also her French accent sounded good to my ears. You could always tell she had arrived by her distinctive perfume. I didn't realize it was seductive because I didn't know what seduction was.<br \/> I remember all this but I don't remember her name, she might even be dead by now. On the days she didn't come to the teaching, I found myself looking for her but I had to be careful. Not only did I have my own attendants watching me, there were many other young Rinpoches who were ever watchful. But luckily, because of my position in the room near a window, I could see her reflection without looking directly at her. Nevertheless she must have noticed that I was paying attention to her.<br \/> I only confided in one friend, whose name I cannot mention, and he was so surprised that I found her freckles beautiful. He just couldn't understand what I liked about this skin disease. I could only confide in this one friend because he was very understanding, otherwise, confessing to people around me that I was interested girls, especially a girl with red hair and a freckled face, would be like confessing that I wanted to join a suicide bomb squad. It had to be kept absolutely confidential. It was good that the Tibetans didn't think she was beautiful at all because I could easily feign disinterest. I had to really conceal my emotions and luckily by then I had become a master at this. The challenge was to look like a good disciplined rinpoche while arranging interactions of any kind with this redheaded, multicolor dressed woman.<br \/> It was a most interesting courtship because there was no shared language between us. I hardly spoke English and she also spoke very little. I could tell my retinue that I was with Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche while I was trying to have a conversation with her but it required a lot of tricks and lies. The few times we communicated\u2014her using her limited English and me using mime and hand gestures\u2014I had to cut short and run off with no explanation. I really had to act quickly. She must have been so puzzled. Completely unaware of my situation, she would invite me to her house for tea or to go on walks, which I guess was kind of like asking me on a date. But accepting such an invitation was just not possible at all. I couldn't take leave for even an hour. For me, even to have a conversation for 10 minutes was almost impossible. She even invited me to go trekking with her. She didn't understand that the only place I was allowed to go alone was a toilet, otherwise there were either attendants, monks, or lamas following my every movement. And I wasn't even a high ranking lama. Imagine what the high ranked lamas were going through.<br \/> But I think we slowly began to understand each other's intentions and situations. Because she was an adult, she knew how to recognize a crush and because she was open minded, she didn't try to dissuade me.<br \/> So one night, many of us were invited for a formal dinner by the French ambassador or some French organization. It wasn't at the embassy, it was a restaurant or maybe some kind of private club. There were many people there, including this redhead. Instead of coming to the dinner, the other tulkus all went out to a movie so I had to go alone. This buffet style event was a totally new experience for me. Most of us were served outside by Nepali boys holding trays of hors d'oeuvres. People were roaming around in and out. The woman approached me, she must have been a little bit drunk but I didn't even know what the signs of alcohol were back then. No Tibetan or Bhutanese girl would ever have dared to approach me while drinking. But now that I think back, she must have been.<br \/> We sat together on a bench near a big hedge. Everyone was busy socializing, going for drinks and food at the buffet tables, on the other side of the dimly lit garden, but we didn't get up. The absence of light and language must have helped us to communicate because she had to she move closer and closer to me. She looked at me more than I looked her because the moment she looked at me, I had to look away.<br \/> Suddenly she took my hand and placed it down her shirt. I was shocked by this unexpected gesture, and I didn't know what to do to conceal my nerves. My instinct told me to remove my hand and sniff it. This amused her, so she took my hand and put it down her shirt again and told me to do it again. That night when I went back home I could still feel her face cream on my skin. At the teachings the next day, still it was there even though I had thoroughly washed my face, and I felt so uncomfortable and worried that people would find out. 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